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Hi could I have a private post please.
If anyone could give me some advice that would be great. Me & my husband have been together 8 years, we’ve always been the couple that like to spend time together and with the kids, holidays, days out etc. Anyway about 2 months ago he’s started a new job (nothing wrong with the old job, self employed everything going well) this new job I never see him. He gets in early hours of morning sleeps then back out. While he’s out I don’t have any contact with him. Basically In the last month I’ve spent no more than 20minutes with him at once. This job is very well paid and means we’ll never have to worry about money, but his last job did us fine, bills were paid holidays etc. I’m now sat thinking about ending things, everyday I tell myself things will get better but everyday it gets worse. He’s not happy to see me when he gets home, we have no communication and we haven’t slept in the same bed in a long time. He keeps telling me it’ll all be worth it for the money side of things. I’ve never been interested in money, as long as my bills are paid and my children are happy, I’m happy. Is it worth all this just for money? What would u do? Over last 2/3 weeks I’ve gone downhill, I’m not sleeping I’m constantly crying, I’ve no energy and I’m barely eating. I suffer with depression and anxiety and it feels like the depression has come back and hit hard. I can’t talk to family or friends cause I’m embarrassed my marriage is failing. If I talk to him he’s just not interested. Sorry for such a long post and sorry it’s all a bit mixed up im just at my wits end and need some sort of advice from somewhere 😢😢 there is more to it m, just not enough time in day to explain everything
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