Hi, Could I have a private post please.So together me and my partner have three …
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Hi, Could I have a private post please.So together me and my partner have three children, 2 are biologically his with another woman and the youngest one is biologically ours.Our youngest child is one years old and her older sisters are 7 and 11, the older ones share a room together and the youngest is in our bedroom as we only have a two bedroom house.We could only afford a mortgage on this two bedroom house and are only a quarter way through paying it so can’t move.I am stuck on ideas as my youngest needs her own space/room as my partners always getting rid of her things or complaining telling me she’s got too many things and I need to get rid.Like yesterday he said our baby needed a smaller cot because it’s taking up room… but really she needs her own room I think tbh then there wouldn’t be a space problem.Every time I talk to my partner about it, he brushes it off and says our youngest child is fine in our room.Our oldest girls live with there birth mum 5 days a week then the other two days at ours (there second home).The girls keep asking me for a double bed I asked how they would feel if I got them a double sofa bed and they were more than happy with my suggestion it would also free up a bit of space so all would be a little happier but my other half said no just get rid of toys and a smaller cot and we will be fine, was just wondering if anyone on here had any ideas or positive advice on what I could do to keep all three kids happy and my partner.Also to add on post totally different subject but my partner only bought presents for our oldest daughters this year as said he didn’t have enough money but I bought presents for all three of my girls and I’m skint, am I right at being a little pissed off?! Every year I have bought both my oldest all there birthday/Christmas presents with no input or money from there dad now with one more child it’s harder to stretch my money so for once he bought two presents one for each of the oldest but I find this a bit shit tbh.Its the thought that counts and I don’t think any child should be left out.I wrote from me and daddy on her presents and I know she’s too young to understand or remember so I won’t have to explain but ….. Whats your guys thoughts on this too please, is it just be overreacting?
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