Hi could I have a private post please My family (mum gran ect) are very negative…
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Hi could I have a private post please
My family (mum gran ect) are very negative. Everytime I see them they nag me about the same thing. You tell them something happy and they turn it into a negative like my partner bought me a coat for my birthday and my gran said couldn’t the money have been spent on things like bills? She’s like that about everything or when I tell her something she says ‘yeah’ before I’ve even finished like she wasn’t even listening and so does my mum. My mum is also a very stressy person if I’m tired she much more tired (baring in mind I’m her only child and I’m 22 with two children of my own under 2). I really struggle to be around them and when I am I come home feeling down and miserable like they’ve sucked the happiness out of me 😞 I’ve suffered from depression and tried to explain this to them which results in them laughing and not speaking to me for a week. does anybody else’s have something similar and how do you cope?
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Sorry to hear ur struggling hun, my mother is a very negative person, I find it’s better to keep conversations light and don’t mention how ur feeling, it’s hard, but there behaviour probably won’t change, the best u can do is how u deal with it, let comments go over ur head and don’t let it affect you (hard I know, at first), think of the two amazing little people u have and ur partner, brake the cycle and make ur own family filled with happiness, this is what am trying to do 😀, wishing you luck and happiness hun x