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Hi. Need a private post to whichever page please
My partner started working nights a few weeks ago so his tired understandably so sleeps during the day.
Our 15mth old son is struggling to adapt I feel as he will not let him feed him, change him or dress him he just screams and hits him and throws things at him. It’s heartbreaking. My eldest helps me more with small jobs around the house and with his brother and we have time together once little one sleeps. I feel so tired myself as I am lucky to get 1-2hrs sleep at night due to little one not falling asleep until around 11pm then up almost every hour until 6am when it’s time to get up and ready as my partner just gets in. I don’t work myself at the moment so I do Housework cooking look after the kids etc but I’m shattered and wanting to cry constantly. I feel like I have no one to talk to. And my relationship is falling apart with my partner as when he wants to be with us he just sleeps. He suggested a date first time in over 2years first time I left my youngest as well. It was a massive failure I feel cos he wanted to chat catch up spend time with me etc. Pictures and cinema well cinema he slept the entire way through and the meal never happened. Im falling apart I feel so lonely and sad and miserable. I’m constantly ill cos he comes back from work catching flu and sickness bugs etc and I gotta carry on with the kids ill and get up every hour practically with them. I don’t know what I’m hoping for out of this I just need to get it out of my system I guess. Every time I try talking to my partner he tells me to move on which isn’t what I want!! I just want balance a family again I don’t mean to appear selfish I appreciate him working hard I used to work before I got made redundant but until the little one starts school I thought I’d concentrate on him as there is a lot of medical issues going on with him too
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