Hi please can I have a private post x Split up with my emotionally abusive and …

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Hi please can I have a private post x

Split up with my emotionally abusive and controlling partner recently, however he was a decent dad to our lg so I was eager to do my best to stay civil for her sake so that she could see her Daddy and still have a nice bond with him…
Since we split he has seen her a handful of times, only when I’ve asked if he wanted to, and he will only see her at my house for an hour or so (I have to be there too as I wouldn’t let him be in my house on his own).
When he comes to see her he has no real interest in spending any time with her, he just follows me about the house trying it on with me and wanting a hug and a kiss and being touchy feely 🙄
Now I haven’t done anything at all to make him think that this is welcomed behaviour or that feelings are reciprocated, and I push him away and say no thanks each time, but he just will not get the message.
It’s at the point now where I don’t think it’s best that he sees our lg at my house, because to be honest I’m frightened that he’s not going to take no for answer one time – normally he will bugger off in a huff after a while of being rejected, yet still tries every time.
He can be very pushy and persistent.
If I say I don’t feel comfortable with him seeing her at mine, I know full well that he just won’t see her anymore.
He’s already said he won’t take her out anywhere because he “doesn’t have to”…
I guess I’m just asking for opinions really? 😔 don’t know what to do for the best.
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