Hi private post please. My best friend and his ex girlfriend split up roughly 2 …
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Hi private post please.
My best friend and his ex girlfriend split up roughly 2 months ago (kinda mutual split) and he’s just got a phone call now to say she’s pregnant. He is 100% adamant he wants this baby, they both work and he says he can provide etc. Thing is she doesn’t want this baby and wants an abortion. (This would be the second abortion she’s got to my friend) he is in a right state he is sure he wants this. She is now refusing to speak to him and will only speak through his mum. Does my friend have a say in this or is it all down to her?
Thankyou in advance.
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Thankyou ladies I thought this would be the case. I did tell him this on the phone that unfortunately he wouldn’t have a say but I just wanted to make sure what I said was right. I’ve even offered to try talk to her and see if she’s just full of emotions at the minute and lashing out or if she truly does want this baby. I feel awfully sorry for him, he’s brilliant with my daughter and I knew he always wanted a child when he said the time felt right, which must be now! Just sad he doesn’t really have a say in what happens. X
Without sounding like a complete hater which I’m not,but if they already got pregnant once and she’s got rid why would he risk getting her pregnant again? Takes 2 to tango.i don’t understand why she has told him only to say she’s having an abortion she sounds nasty!
Its unfortunately entirely her choice but if she was never planning on keeping the child why did she tell your friend about the pregnancy? I find that to be a little evil
Unfortunatey its her decision. You cant make her carry a baby and go through pregnancy if that is not what she wants. All he can do is talk to her and put his feelings across.
Tbh if she truely didnt want it she wouldnt have told him, she would have just got the abortion. Shes either trying to get him back, wanting him to stop her or is just a plain bitch and wants to hurt him. Nothing he can do legally tho. Its her body
Your friend needs to accept her decision and move on….sorry don’t mean to sound harsh but that’s the reality of it….
It’s down to her hun. It’s her body and it’s her choice, there’s absolutely nothing he can do, sorry.
Sadly it is her choice. As it is her body who will carry. He doesn’t get a say.. which sucks for him
I’m so sorry for your friend.