Hiya could I have a private post please? I just wanted abit of advice when havi…

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Hiya could I have a private post please?

I just wanted abit of advice when having your second baby, my eldest is 3 & my baby is nearly 7 months. My baby is very clingy to me, I literally can’t walk into the kitchen without him crying for me and it’s starting to stress out all the time. My mood generally is tired and it doesn’t take much to irritate or stress me out. I feel anxious at the thought of leaving the house on my own with both kids. Im ok if someone is with me or I’m going to someone’s house but the thought of being on my own and 1 of them kicking off terrifies me. Ive tried telling my partner that I feel I’m struggling and I’m not enjoying my maternity leave this time but he’s not much support (or one for listening well) he tells me the kids stress him out, I’ve just had a stressful day and keeps making the point we’re not having sex. I’m just not interested in anything like that right now. I had issues with the mini pill so it been a long time since we’ve done anything so I can understand his frustration but he’s thinking about him and not listening to me. He keeps asking if I still love him or fancy him and I keep telling him I do and that it’s nothing he’s doing it’s me just not interested in it right now but he keeps asking and he said one day he’ll stop asking (not sure what he was implying by that comment!!)
He’s slept in my eldest’s room since the new baby arrived as our 3 year old was trying to get in bed with us all the time during the night and waking the baby. We thought it was best to have someone in his room with him so he wouldn’t come into the baby but before I know it it’s been 6 months and we’d shared a bed no more than twice in that time. I’d had enough of sleeping on my own so told him to start sleeping back in with me.
I feel I’m stuck in a bit of a rut, not sure how to get past getting so anxious and stressed all the time. x
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