Hiya could i have a private post… so this year my family have all decided to g…
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Hiya could i have a private post… so this year my family have all decided to go have Christmas dinner with other family’s on there partners side im single so i dont have this option lol but ive offerd to have every one at mine so im not on my own but there all sayin they have already arranged it all so this year i will be at home having Christmas on my own with just my little boy whos 4 what can i do to make it feel diffrent for him as hes used to spending the day with me eatin together i want to make it diffrent so he knows its not just any usuall day ovisually pulling crackers and opening gifts will be diffrent to any other meal but i feel thats not enough! Im wanting ideas of what we could do together… he will be goin to his dads around 5 and he spends time with all his family so he will be fine and get to spend time with family ‘dads side’ there but i just feel really bad for him that it has to be just us and not having the Christmas day every one else has with family around…. what can i do to make it good and nice for him thankyou 😊
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Last yeah it was just me and my son for Xmas, he was 3 and honestly now it was amazing. We got up and opened his presents, watched films and played with his toys, stayed in our pjs the entire time ❤️ we had lots of cuddles and ate our weight in chocolates. This year it will Just be me my son and my daughter, I’m anxious about it but I’m gonna do my best to wake up on that day and be the bestest most fun mummy they’ve ever seen x
Why not have a toy elf arrive Xmas morning with a clue and then that leads to a treasure hunt to find his presents? You could make Christmas cookies, watch Xmas films, get some sparklers for the evening? X
Right Mrs, stick a smile on that face of yours for your little boy. He is all you need. Plan ahead maybe get some paints, crafty bits in. Xmas movies, Put xmas music on. Dance and sing like crazy. He will remember that day for years to come, make it happy memories. Do you know any other single mums or mums from your sons school or nursery who may also be on there own? You could possibly do xmas together. However you decide to do it i wish you an amazing christmas with your little man x
Your his world! Don’t feel bad you both get special time together… Maybe start the day with a Xmas breakfast I’ve seen pancakes with strawberries and cream made to look like Father Christmas. Music games presents he will love it don’t feel he will be missing out on anything because he won’t. Xx
Just think, you’ll be able to focus on your child and what they want to do rather than worying about other people. I’d enjoy these times as they may well be short lived!!
Play xmas music, go on a walk, a bear hunt lol just have an amazing time together. Make memories to cherish x
Play a new game, watch a Christmas movie and have nibbles . Ask him what he’d like to do different.
Same ere xx