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Can I get a pp plz. When I was pregnant my partner(child’s dad) used to drugs a…

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Can I get a pp plz.
When I was pregnant my partner(child’s dad) used to drugs and go missing for weekends on end , & just was horrible used to take his come down out on me. His sister was vial to my 2year old since she was 5months old about the colour of her skin. She threatened to kick my child out of my belly (her own niece) the dad and mum fight all the time and his dad is soo abusive to his mum I have a video on my phone of how vial these 2 are. We split up in may and I moved out of my mums and into my own place with my kids that I paid everything for. In June him and his mum kept calling me all day and threatening me he threatened to kill me coz he found out I took my eldest daughter to see her dad. So the police was rang and he was on a restraining order. Now he got his nan to text me and tell me how much he’s struggling how he wasn’t going to work and how he was so depressed to make me feel bad. I emailed the court and get the restraining order removed coz 2 events before that I took my youngest daughter to see him and his nan. I then said I couldn’t do it anymore as it was soo far away from my house with a double buggy and 2 babies it was too much for me. So I told him to meet me half way (at my mums) ‘I’m not going there I don’t like ur mum’ and then told me his solicitor said he wasn’t aloud when really when we was in court the police said to me and my mum that he could. So Wednesday 11th Oct came and we arranged to meet at my mums well I turned up with my child and waited in all day and he didn’t turn up so I rang the nan that evening and asked why she said coz she was ill to which I replied…if ur grandson wanted to see his child then he would of walked there on his own but he didn’t’ since then we haven’t really been in contact. So now I try FaceTime him call him and send him texts to which I get no reply and all I have asked is what is happening with our daughter and arranging for him to see her(again!!) Thursday came I got a phone call from ‘unknown’ and it was his friend pretending to be a another boy and I no this by saying his name he automatically hung up. so as a angry mum I text him and phoned him coz it’s like u can prank call ur child’s mum but can’t ask how she is and even arrange to see her. then last week got a phone call from a social worker saying my daughters dad had phoned them and said my new partner is part of a gang and how he carries knives and he smokes drugs … my partner works 6-6 has a son and moans about me smoking a fag! He’s never touched drugs he doesn’t even drink. In previous convo’s with my ex all he talks about is my now partner never asks how the baby is. So social services done checks on him and it all came clear. Then 2days later I get a phone call from the police and they asked me to come down the station and make a statement as my child’s dad has called them saying I’m harassing him!! To see his daughter!! So I’ve cut everything with him and his family. And now waiting for cps to get back to me to see what’s going on. I’ve got a feeling he will take me to court he is on the birth certificate but I am so scared I can’t sleep or anything. My daughter doesn’t know her dad and I have tried for him to see her. He lives with his mum but they get drunk every Friday night and the dad kicks off. When I was pregnant coz the dad didn’t have any drugs he threw my ex partners xbox at the wall. Luckily me and my daughter was at my mums. When my daughter was born I had to do everything for that baby everything and I still am. I get no money from him I do everything on my own with 2 kids u under 3. I’m scared he will get parental responsibility but my child will never go in that house without me. He is unfit to have our daughter on his own from his drug taking and how he is. When my daughter was 3 weeks old I had hair drye in my hair she was asleep and so was he like always and then she started really crying for no reason and he said ‘come and get the fucking baby why the fuck is she crying like that’ he didn’t even hold her or anything he shot up and started screaming at me. When she was a week old me his mum went down thto shops and I brought me and my daughter lunch I didn’t buy him any as he was getting ready to go to work and he had Chinese that he warmed up the night before came back and he started moaning at me so he then took his mums credit card and said he’s going g pub after work so he did. He came home after I was looking after the girls all day on my own and stood there and lit a fag infront of my baby. He then went into ththe bedroom where my daughter was asleep he turned on the light and started banging things around to which I went mental. I had a social worker here before coz of when he threatened to kill me and she said for me to stay away from him and never let the baby back in the house (there’s loads more) but it’s sooo long to type. I’m so scared he’s gonna take my daughter. All I do is protect them girls. I don’t no what to do anymore
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