My friend has just found out she is 16 weeks pregnant but not long had a baby 6 …
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My friend has just found out she is 16 weeks pregnant but not long had a baby 6 months ago but has been breastfeeding and was taking the pill too and she wants to have an abortion but is scared it is too late, has anyone been through this? Xxx
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Can I post a private reply please to the girl who is 16 weeks pregnant and has a 6months old, I’m in a very similar position at the minute iv got a 5month old and just found out I’m 12 weeks pregnant, I’m also considering an abortion best thing I can tell you to do is get to the doctors as soon as, in the uk you can get an termination up to 24 weeks but the further along you are the more difficult and more risks I would suggest looking online so you know what to expect it’s a very difficult decision to make personally for me I have certain medical conditions that mean I wouldn’t be able to look after another child at the moment make sure your completely sure on what you want to do x
Fucking hell is she for real 16 weeks is far far to late to just get rid that’s a fully formed baby I may get abuse for this but in my eyes if she dose this she is a disgrace
There’s other ways from having abortion.. if you don’t want it give it up for adoption…16 weeks is way to late, it’s a baby! It’s got feelings just as much as you have abortion is cruel!
I had 2 children very close together and everyone told me how hard it would be blah blah blah. Yet no one told me how much they would love each other and how they would become the best of friends. It’s a joy to be their mummy. Please think about it carefully. It’s hard but so many benefits.xxx
5 weeks ago my baby died at 16 weeks pregnant. After being induced I got to hold her and she was the full length of my hand. She was a perfect fully formed baby just very very small. 😔 Please think really hard about this. It’s really not as hard as people say having a small age gap between children. If you don’t think you’ll cope then give somebody else a chance to raise this baby. Give a healthy baby a chance. I know it may seem like a tough decision but an abortion is something you could regret for the rest of your life!
Abortion is legal until 24weeks. Your friend has every right to choose to abort the fetus. If she feels that is the right decision for her and her family then she should do what she thinks is best. Do not let anyone guilt you in to keeping or birthing a baby that you do not want. At this stage in development the fetus would not survive outside the womb and she is not a walking incubator.
16 weeks and your friend is considering an abortion? She’s got a baby boy or girl growing in her stomach and she’s thinking of killing it? Sorry but she’s a disgrace if she goes through with this.
I get that she’s scared but there is no way on thid planet I consider killing my child bloody hell I’ve felt my son kicking me for the first time when I was 17 weeks pregnant.
You can have an abortion up to 24 weeks however it’s down to that persons if she can do it at this stage. The baby already has a determined sex and has developed a lot is no longer a foetus. I couldn’t personally do it myself however I’m no one to judge what anyone decides to do as I don’t know their story. Tell you friend she needs to speak to someone quickly who’s medically trained on this get referred up by the gp and they will discuss because at this stage it’s either a surgical procedure or be induced essentially to deliver the baby I wouldn’t want her to go into it blind she needs to research x
I am utterly disgusted at some people’s comments on here if you don’t like what poster has put don’t comment. She’s been taking the pill not her fault. We’re all mums from different background and situations you don’t know hers. For the poster I wouldn’t bother coming here for advice I feel sorry for you just ring up your gp or local family planning clinic and they will give you all the advice you’d need and not judge you!!!! X
I have a 7 month old and I’m 16 weeks pregnant I’ve felt my baby move from 13 weeks and he/she has been kicking for the last week or more sorry couldn’t do it and it’s disgusting how it’s still legal to abort until 24 weeks my baby brother was born at 26 weighing 1.7oz and is amazing no health problems etc I find out tuesday the sex of baby sorry but couldn’t ever live with myself for doing it so late.
16 weeks. Please tell her not to go through with an abortion! The baby isn’t just a fetus anymore. It’s now a baby boy or baby girl.
I get she may be scared and didn’t imagine having 2 children close together but it’s happened.
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I have know advice regarding abortion but my baby was born sleeping. He passed away at 15 weeks, he was perfect, tiny but perfect, 10 little fingers and ten little toes. Please think carefully xx
My little boy passed away when I was 16weeks 6days and I had to give birth to him. I was shocked when I saw him, he was a fully formed baby. Please think about this, im not judging one bit. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion and there could be other circumstances but personally for me, it is way too late. Please please think about it. Maybe she could give the baby up for adoption, knowing that the baby will be loved and cared for. Please please tell your friend to think about it. It won’t be easy regardless of the option she chooses.
My opinion is this: if she got pregnant while on birth control and while breastfeeding, this baby is meant to be and once she holds it in her arms, she will be thankful that she didn’t get an abortion.
Can I just point out that you shouldn’t actually take the pill when breastfeeding in the first place. It can have huge affects on the baby you’re feeding??? Where on earth do people get their info from!
I feel so sorry for this poor woman! No one knows her circumstances or her family situation yet you’re all sitting here passing judgment!! She was using contraception & clearly taking good care of her child too & only just found out she is pregnant again, she’s now faced with an awfully difficult decision to make and is possibly now reading all these comments in tears!! It’s her life & her choice, personally I couldn’t abort a baby that late but that would be MY decision and mine only to make!
To the OP please advise your friend to think on this very carefully, she already knows it’s a baby & what stage in development it’s at obviously as she already has another child, in the UK abortion is allowed up to 24 weeks (personally don’t agree but that’s how it is) if she is going to abort then she needs to make this decision sooner rather than later and if she decides to continue the pregnancy but feels she can’t look after another child then she needs to consider the adoption route, whatever she decides she may need ciuncilling or some sort of therapy to deal with her feelings, I feel so bad for her, no one plans a pregnancy this way and she must be feeling so so scared poor woman, my inbox is open for anyone who wants to talk and I don’t judge
Thats almost half way through a pregnancy ! For the babies sake she should go through with the pregnancy and either keep the baby, be a surrogate to someone who really wants a baby or adoption x
Please don’t have an abortion at 16 weeks 😭 your baby is innocent and the way they do abortions at later stages is horrible please don’t do it, think about ways you could cope, if you can’t maybe adoption x
I hate the fact that u can get an abortion up to 24 weeks my nephew was born at 24 weeks and is a happy healthy 3 yr old. I’m not judging her situation at all I’m just stating the fact that i think it’s wrong to be able to have an abortion at 24 weeks x
i hate there comments…
yes we are all entitled to our opinions but she asked for advice not to be verbally battered…
regardless of what anyone thinks this is HER choice and whatever the outcome she has to think about HER family and if she can support another baby…
slammed if you abort but shell get same shit if lives on benifits having baby after baby…
honestly bab you cant win, go to the doctors dicuss your options and make a decision based on what you need not what has been said to you….your body your choice
Oh please don’t! That poor baby, I know your friend will be scared I can imagine she’s terrified but please don’t abort the baby, it’s not your fault or the babies fault, let it have a life either with you or someone else that will love the baby, you may not want the baby now but when it comes to having the baby you may not regret keeping him or her. Please just don’t be doing it for selfish reasons when someone else can love the baby, if you are 100% positive you can’t bring the baby up seriously let someone else do it x
Ok yes I don’t like abortion but I am pro choice that woman has a hard decision to make but not only that she has to live with her decision and in a lot of cases later on in life around 30yrs of age it comes back to haunt you woman have a terrible time over it I have seen it happen., even worse if she finds out that she cant have any kids. Its a huge decision that lady must make one that wont be taken lightly I presume? we all have different opinions but what ever we think or feel we don’t have the right to judge her unless we are in exactly the same situation. I’m the end it is her decision to make a lone unless she has a partner. She asked for a little help not judgement…
My daughter was 6 months old when I found out I was pregnant with my son. It was so hard to get my head around as I was breastfeeding and on the pill but the best thing about it all is the bond my children have now, the love they have for each other is amazing. Don’t get me wrong it is hard at times but so worth it. Please just consider that it could be the most amazing thing in the world to have them grow up together. I hope your ok and if you need any advice please just message me my inbox is always open xx
Everyone will give you their opinion and views on what’s the ‘Right’ and ‘Wrong’ thing to do but only YOU can make that decision. Therefor I’m not Going to express my opinion. Good luck with whatever you choose and stay strong ❤
Wow.
To the girl who asked for this post. Inbox me if you need to talk. I’ll help where I can. I wont judge your opinions and I wont force mine at you.