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Not baby related but really need advice and to get it of my chest.. So I’ve been with my partner for a little over 2 years now we have a 9 month old baby together we don’t live together but he stays at mine most nights a couple of months ago I went on his phone just being curious(as you do) and on his internet history there was porn after porn!! I mean like all he searches for is porn every single day! I havnt confronted him about it but I’m a little hurt and feel like I’m not good enough for him and I’m not satisfying his needs! Do you guys think I’m over reacting? I don’t like the fact that he’s getting pleasure out of looking at other women! It just makes me feel like utter shit and so worthless! 😣
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  • If it was my boyfriend I would just be so so so relieved that it is just porn (fake women that he will never meet) rather than another woman, an affair, texts about meeting someone!! Men will be men and I think porn is pretty harmless to be honest! X

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  • It’s normal for most men. Be glad it’s only porn. However my ex was a pervert and every time he watched it he was calling me “fat” even though I was under 10 stone with 5’9
    Say NO to #pervs

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  • 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻 100%% back you on this!! Chin up sweetie it might not be because your not satisfying it but because he has a lot more needs in that area that he doesn’t want to keep constantly asking you and making you feel like you need to attend his every need just so he doesn’t! Trust me I’ve been through this which I can assure you if I was to tell you would leave you absolutely mortified! All I can say is don’t keep looking at then it won’t hurt you so much (what you don’t know won’t hurt you) if you know what I mean!! And if it bothers you so much maybe just have a word with him see if there’s anything you both can do to stop him doing it xxxx

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  • And he isn’t hiding it Hun otherwise he would delete his history or hide his phone so you don’t see. Maybe he isn’t aware that it would make you feel that way. The best way is to just ask him if you satisfy him if he says yes ask why he watches porn. The response I always got was its natural blah blah blah but that’s not what you want to hear I’m sure so hopefully these comments help!! Xxxx

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  • I think every man does it… it’s the norm and so easy to access now a days for a quick release. It doesn’t mean he doesn’t love you, doesn’t mean your worthless at all! He’s just being a man. X

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  • I don’t like it either so I do my own videos and send them him lol , men need visual stimulation where is girls need more mental stimulation

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  • My man dose it lol at first it botherd me but it dosent nar men for ya, wev been together 9 years now xx

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