Pp please. Has anyone had any experience on this: I have a stepdaughter aged 7 w…
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Pp please.
Has anyone had any experience on this: I have a stepdaughter aged 7 who’s mum isn’t involved after 3 years of constant let down we have to cease contact until birth mum can give little one stability and continuity. But I’m struggling to handle her behaviour now she’s kicking off constantly and screaming 😞 she’s clearly missing her mum but we can’t allow involvement until birth mum is consistent you can’t force someone to be a parent 🙁
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Sorry could you reply? The courts enforced supervised contact but she never agreed times/dates went back and judge said it would be at times and dates arranged by parents but supervised and if nothing was organised we were advised by the judge to cease it. X
Who stopped the contact? Was it a court ruling? It sounds to me like the child is kicking off because she’s not allowed to see her mum. My sons dad is inconsistent in seeing him but I wouldn’t stop contact for that reason. I think a little bit more info is required so we can better understand the situation x
If it was you maybe offer mum once month contact it clearly making the child really upset and stressed out not having any contact at all and also what about you guys letting her call her mum when she wants to it may totally back fire on you both later on if it you guys who have totally refused them contact
Maybe daddy 121 time as a reward and get him to take her out somewhere fun using lots of positive reinforcement let her talk about how she’s feeling if not use role play or writing give her a book to draw pictures or wrote how she’s feeling work with her if ots not court ordered and u know that’s the reason allow her mum to take responsibility too so that she ain’t just upset with u not allowing it
Was it you and your spouse that cut off contact or the courts?