Pp please, sorry long post to explain. I need advise!! My relationship has nev…
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Pp please, sorry long post to explain. I need advise!!
My relationship has never been fabulous with my mum but we always got on. I have always been closer to my mums mum who’s dead now and been a daddy girls.
Last two years I been fighting endometriosis, had hysterectomy which they botched up. And then diagnosed with breast cancer and am going through all that.
My husband left me six months ago after 23 years together and left me with my two kids. Aged 12 and 8.
They are my world.
Over the last year my mum has become very bitter and I don’t know why. Saying nasty things about me. We never spend time together, I try but she’s always got an excuse. Then since my husband left me she’s become unbearable saying it was all my fault and I’m a bitch and a cow. My husband was removed by police for domestic violence and rape!
My two children have been complaining to me over last two weeks that my mum bitches about me in front of them. My little girl and her friend caught it on video last night and I was disgusted with what she was saying. It’s upsetting them now having to hear it at age 12 and 8. The kids love their papa so much and like to visit him but they saying they don’t want to around her as she’s nasty about their mummy.
I was rushed into hospital at 12 today with my heart , suspected heart attack or clot but turns out I’ve been overdoing it as a single parent and the stress of being shown the video last night had set it all off. I’ve been told to completely rest and given heart medication but I’ve just been sent another video with my mother bitching about me saying I’ve got my dad wrapped around my finger all cause he came to house when ambulance arrived and then took kids so I could be rushed to hospital.
I was in resuscitation for three hours and my mother never text, called or came up to sit with me. I was all alone and scared.
I’m devastated that my own mum would say things like that. We never been mother daughter close but I still love my mum and need her more so in my life right now with cancer, separating from abusive husband and trying to be a good single parent.
What do I do???
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