I have a huge dilema thats making my partner feel quite low his ex is using his two little boys against him we are due to have his oldest from tuesday till sunday and his other little boy friday thru sunday but she has now said he has to have both or else she isnt going to let us see them again.
Last week i got them a few little bits pencils rubbers notebooks just little things as they had deserved it. So she messaged my partner today and told him that they dont need any of that “TAT” that bloody hurt my feelings i did something nice. My partner lives with me and my kids he doesnt work atm due to his anxiety depression so im the main bread winner she keeps going on and on at him about the fact that he has no income and he should be providing for them. I provide most which i have no problem with at all cuse i treat all the kids the same no matter what. I love his kids they are amazing little boys.
My problem is that she keeps messing with his head and really upsetting him saying shes going to move and that we r never seeing them again this is every week we had his youngest last week for the whole week on his own and hes made a promise ti his other kid that we have him this week but now we r being demanded to have both (this happens all the time) every holiday and half term she seems to have excuse after excuse as to why we have to have both and now my partner has put his foot down and say no its my time with my oldest on his own like i promised she has now said she is going to take him to court and throw empty threats.
I just feel soo bad for my partner doing something that hes been promising for a while and never happens ugggg excuse the long rant im just at that point i want to tell her whats shes doing to him uggg thanks ladies xx