Ppp I’ve posted a few times about this but still mega confused, my ex left me 6 …
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Ppp I’ve posted a few times about this but still mega confused, my ex left me 6 or so weeks ago got with someone within a few days, I slept with a close family member of his then he wanted me back, a week later he doesn’t want me anymore, can’t stop picturing me in bed with his family member while we are having sex and I no longer just feel like his so he no longer feels the same for me…yes I shouldn’t have slept with his family member, he also shouldn’t have hopped straight into bed with someone else within days. So anyways he left because I was depressed and bitchy a lot of the time. I’ve got meds now but have since developed anxiety since all this has happened. He keeps saying he wants to be friends, wants to text from time to time. We have a 2 year old. I’m still madly in love with him and I know I’ve messed up but I just want him back but he won’t. Should I try be friends with him? I think the only reason I’m considering it is because I wish he would fall back in love with me and forget these images of me in bed with someone else. We never had any problems in our almost 5 year relationship which I think is also why I’m finding it so difficult. I know you can’t be friends with someone your in love with but I really want him back, I’m stupid I know but this is my first love and I’m 27, don’t ever feel like I would meet anyone else especially with confidence and body image issues, he has also said he would be my friend with benefits…please explain how you go from being engaged, in love to friends with benefits. I know that defiantly wouldn’t help. Also if he is having these images of me and his relative having sex while we are having sex why would he want to be my friend with benefits!? I wish I knew why he was doing this because I don’t think it’s just because I slept with that person why he doesn’t want to be with me. Also I trust there was no cheating in the relationship I do believe he was loyal as was I.
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Could you comment on my post I also forgot to add that I was really drunk when I slept with the relative and my ex had asked him to keep a eye on me (he did a great job) people have said I was vunerable etc but I still feel so bad for it even more so now it’s caused my ex not to see me the same. The thing is he said that he wanted me back because that’s when he realised I could be taken away from him and he would lose me, but then he gave me back up a week later. The whole thing is so messed up. No one would believe he was like this because he is generally a nice guy. Well he was I don’t know what has happened to him.
“Just give him three days. Wait three days, no texts, no calls, no nothing. Then see if he comes back”
“What if I can’t wait three days tho??”
“You see the thing is, you keep running back to him and he gets off on it. He knows he’s gonna have you coming back to him. Why not give him three days and make him realize, oh shit it’s serious, I’m really losing her!”
“What if he doesn’t even come back?”
“Then why would you wanna be with someone that doesn’t want you? Why would you wanna be with someone like that?”
I agree with above. Don’t text, call or talk to him for a few days and see if he realises what he’s doing and what he is going to loose. If he’s not bothered he’s really not worth it. I hope everything works out for you xx
He got with someone else a few days after he left you…..