Private post please Iv seen many posts like this but just want to know what oth…
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Private post please
Iv seen many posts like this but just want to know what other mums think..
Iv been with my partner over a year now and he literally is perfect for me. He will go above and beyond for both me and my child (not his)
Only problem is he has a sex drive wayyyyyy higher than mine.. I wouldn’t normally say this is a problem but he’s stroppy if I don’t ‘put out’
And before we go to bed he will say stuff like ‘is dessert on the cards tonight’ etc and even if I say no I’m too tired from work or whatever and he will still come up and try his luck and it makes me feel so down!
The other night we were in bed it was 4am and he was wanking which woke me up and he was touching me 😞 I pretended to be asleep hoping he would stop but he didn’t 😞 I then let him know I was awake and went with it and lay there and had sexual with him as I just wanted to go back to sleep and didn’t want the awkward confrontation.
Then about 20 mins later I was still lay there awake he just lifted the covers and went down on me and then had sex again.
Is this assault? I didn’t outright say no so I don’t want to confront him and falsely accuse him if what he did is okay! It’s not the first time something like this has happened either..
I love him so much and I genuinely think he respects me but I dunno what to think about this situation.
Thanks in advance x
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That’s really creepy, he should have respect you not to touch you while you’re asleep
You should speak to him.
I personally wouldn’t stay with someone like that, if he wants to touch you he shouldn’t be doing it while you’re not passed out
No it is not assault and u should be careful what ur asking. U should have said no if u wasn’t comfortable
No its not assult.
U were awake and well aware of wat was happening!
yes it is x