Can I have a post please? I’ll try and keep it short. Basically my boyfriend has…
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Can I have a post please?
I’ll try and keep it short. Basically my boyfriend has finished uni for the summer giving him 4 months off. He is doing fuck all. He goes to bed at 6am and gets up at 4-5pm. He goes to the pub 2-3 times a week. I am with our daughter 24/7. He is doing nothing at all to help me or support me. This weekend I have planned to go on a night out for a friends birthday (I haven’t been out since September) so I have asked him to have our daughter overnight and he just point blank won’t! I don’t mind coming home but I just want one lie in in the morning and I know he won’t get up with her so I’ll have to. We are both 20 so I get all his friends do, but so do mine. I feel like I’m going to have a break down, I’ve been diagnosed with IBS and I’m in agony, my Grandad has just died and I’m still grieving but he just doesn’t care. We’ve been together 5 years and We live in separate houses, we see each other twice sometimes three times a week and he still does fuck all. I don’t even know what I’m asking I’ve just had enough. I know it may seem childish but I just don’t know what to do.
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He will never change, you’ve grown up and he hasn’t he’s a boy still. Just leave your doing it all in ya own anyway. I left and I’m telling you now it was the best thing I ever did for myself and my kids x your stronger than you think Hun trust me xx
Easy to say but hard to do… leave him. Stay strong and one day youll look back and realise u had one good thing and that is yoir daughter. In time you will find someone who appreciates you and loves you and will treat you right. What hes doing is wrong and isnt showing any love xxx
Leave him….. he doesn’t seem to want to grow up and be a dad or partner to you and you lo…… or if you dont want to be single or still love him ask him to move in as he should be there with you both to share in everything it also might make him see what has missing and what he needs to do to help.
Agree with the above you see each other twice a week ? That’s not a committed relationship that’s what teenagers do, he isn’t ready to parent his own child ? Take a look at what your child is seeing would you like your child to be in a relationship like this when they grow up ? As this is their role model, if you leave him exactly what are you losing ? Sounds to me like you would be losing nothing as you do everything alone anyways good luck xx