Can I have a private post please. My husband and I broke up around 4 weeks a go …

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Can I have a private post please. My husband and I broke up around 4 weeks a go and I wont go in to details on the reasons etc but the first 2 weeks he was refusing to even talk to me, didnt want to see our daughter (2 years old) and turned very nasty. He eventually asked to see our daughter and visited the house. He then explained he has no where to live and has been sleeping in his car or paying for hotels. He asked to stay on the sofa here for a while so he could see his daughter and save for the fees and deposit to rent somewhere. I agreed for oir daughters sake so we could stay friends and he could get himself sorted. I questioned whether he was actually thinking of our daughter or just needed somewhere to stay but let him have a chance. So the first 2 days he made effort with our daughter. Ever since he has come in from work, sat on the sofa barely acknowledging her, used food in the house when he likes without offering any money for it, put his clothes in the washing expecting me to carry on looking after him and he hasnt done a single thing around the house or spent any time with our daughter. It’s also very strange for me him being here and making the break up harder but I have stuck with it for our daughters sake. Tonight he said he was going out with some mates from work. Got in from work at 6pm, had a shower, said bye to our daughter and left at 6.30 asking me to leave the door open for him. It’s now midnight and no sign of him, not answering his phone or the text I sent him. He leaves for work at 6am and his work clothes are here. I dont feel safe going to sleep leaving the door open and I have work early too. It’s quite obvious he is not out with a mate this time of night but would you think it’s reasonable for me to lock the door and then tell him from now on he is only welcome here on the days he is seeing our daughter and is not using my house as a hotel? I dont want to be cruel but feel I have given him chances and he is just using me and his daughter for a place to stay. He also hasnt saved any money in the first 2 weeks (gets paid weekly and I havent asked him for any money towards bills etc). Would people say it’s unreasonable now asking him to leave again? Thanks
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