Hi can I have a private post please. I’m looking for some advice regarding my …

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Hi can I have a private post please.
I’m looking for some advice regarding my 3 year old child, she stays over at her grandparents every weekend. Almost every time she comes back her attitude is totally different and she fails to listen to anything I say until I get her back into her normal routine near the middle of the week. They allow my daughter to stay awake until 11 oclock at night and most mornings she’s back up at half 4/5 in the morning and they let her stay up so she’s barely getting any sleep. My daughters dad is there every weekend but has never been fully in my daughters life, he picks and chooses when to see her and when to make effort. My daughter doesn’t have her own bed there so shares a bed with her dad and girlfriend and I feel like she should now have her own sleeping space up there instead of sharing every weekend as she now throws tantrums when I tell her she needs to sleep in her own bed here. When she gets back she wakes us during the night and trys to stay awake at early hours in the morning and this sometimes lasts a few nights until I get her back into her sleep routine. I asked them months ago to try and stick to her sleep routine as much as possible and now realising that they still aren’t taking anything that I say In and its having a big effect on my daughters behaviour. I value my daughters relationship with them and hate having issues with them but I feel like they aren’t setting proper boundaries and rules for my daughter and aren’t taking her needs into consideration and it’s starting to worry me as I’m seeing a big change in her behaviour and im now thinking that they are basically letting my daughter do what she wants when there, I’m not sure how often my ex sees my daughter as she tells me he works a lot and doesn’t mention him very often, he doesn’t provide anything for her either and is very irresponsible. Their actions and the way they go about things is worrying and I just want what’s best for my child! Am I wrong for worrying so much about the situation?
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